Cruelty and boundaries
I believe that the moment you say “Everything is mine! I am everything!” you open the door to the path that leads to cruelty. Thus it is all about determining boundaries in time and space… If you regard your wife, child or any other person as your property, if you want everything there and then, if it seems to you that you will never die, it means you do not acknowledge any boundaries. To realize, know and accept that there are no boundaries other than that of the skin, and to acknowledge the owner of all boundaries including the boundary of the skin… If you look at higher souls you see that at that moment love flows like a torrent… Cruelty and for example Mevlana, what a great contrast!